List of problems with mom

 Its 12:53 pm and i know i should sleep coz tomorrow's my test in my NEET coaching but I can't stop myself from writing this.

Since my sis feels bad when i tell her all problems with mom, i m sharing it here point wise clearly.

1. She abuses. Though less than dad but she does.

2. She is adamant.  She will do what she wants. Many people at many times have this stubbornness but her stubbornness even in situations that would melt hearts of other people. 

3. She has no ambition, which part of the reason why she indulges into bad things. She says she wants to do big things in life, and it's a joke. She does not have any work. She prioritises kalesh over productive things.

4. She doesn't care about her family's mental health. If she would care, she would have thought a thousand times before starting fight even if the fight might be for good reason for her. Even after multiple requests she keeps on doing same thing like we are not getting affected or she does not care. Her children have already lost a lot this year till now because of her.

5. She is a big Manipulator. Though she doesn't show her this face to us, her actions clearly say it. She might be planning everything in private and smile like a chudail at all of us. E.g., its 8:45 am 2 sept 25 and she after not talking to any male members of family for around 4-5 days, is suddenly talking to grandpa and asking him to leave house. She has just got a reason now but she always wanted him to go. I wish someday I humiliate her by not letting her enter into some big house made by me. I've to work hard for that to happen.

Added at 6 PM 28 Sept 2025

6. She's doesn't know how to argue or talk respectfully to others without hurting them.

Added at 3:40 PM 13 Dec 2025

7. She blackmails us to not cook. She's always been like this. I remember she did it in 2019 fight too by going to Delhi leaving all responsibilities. Dad never does this. He might maybe in extreme extreme situation but he's more responsible person when it comes to family than that shitty lady.